Expansion can seem graceless. I get messages every day from friends who are irritated. And I won’t lie, my "good girl" gets her bloomers in a bunch. She feels like she needs to write everyone back in 5 minutes “or else!” The reality is though, that igniting a vision demands presence. I've been in ... VIEW POST

I dated a Native American shaman once. It was like all things you hold shiny in your mind. I met him when he bought my mattress on Craigslist. He was about twice my age, rode a Harley, and looked skeptical when I referred to him as a “Native American.” “I’m Indian,” he said. “I’m done with all ... VIEW POST

I once had a woman call and ask what my workshop was about. I told her, “I don’t know yet. But there will be snacks.” She signed up. That has been my version of sales. Truthfully, selling has inspired an internal allergic reaction from me. But dating? That I can do. This time, instead ... VIEW POST

Sometimes I want to take my ball and go home. The bullies aren’t usually that big. Today it was a sleepless night, some tension knots in my ass, the discomfort of expansion, a rejection, and three days of rain. I’m usually a s-hero when the exhaustion first kicks in. I go to war with my problems, ... VIEW POST

I was the girl in elementary school with the retainer wearing the frog jumper. The first time a boy touched my breast, at 15, I laughed hysterically. I was so out of contact with my body I barely felt his hand. I grew up like most girls, feeling unsafe and at odds with what it meant to suddenly ... VIEW POST

It’s not safe. You will not come out intact. Do it anyway. The best things destroy your world So you are available for more.   ... VIEW POST